4everADiva..Knowing your worth!

I recently was invovled with a man who had someone else. At first it seemed fun and exciting but as time went by seem like I was accepting second place. Yea he did things for me and took me out but I would always be second. It took his mate to call me before I realized that second place is unacceptable.As females we tend to not realize the emotinal damage we put ourselves through when we accept second place. I am now in the process of trying to love myself more and to not focus on what I don’t have. It’s very complicated to make yourself feel worthy of love yourself. I meet guys everyday and because my last relationship was basically based on sex. I feel that some small part of me thinks that all I can offer someone. I can’t honestly imagine what it would be like to be someone’s number one. This is sad but true situation that alot of females go through, my advice would be to take time and get to know yourself first before you jump back into another relationship. From my experience I learned that the longer I took to end it, the longer I was confuised and sad.In conclusion know your worth and don’t subject yourself to be anybody’s number two.

4everADiva Motto: Do it for yourself not for the crowd: Til next time stay FLY, FOCUSED and love YOU!

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4everADiva..

I think that anyone can be a Diva but it’s just the style that you use that will set you apart. A Diva used to be considered the girl with the “bitchest” attitude but all that has changed. My definition of a Diva is a woman who can make any situation work for her. For example, I lost my job this past year and I have been more focused and driven then I have been in the past 5 years to become more successful with my business. (E.O.PROMO) it is most important to me that I set a good example for my five nieces. I don’t have any children “YET” so I would like to show my nieces that even when you least expect it life happens and being a Diva means being able to make unexpected situation work to your advantage. Also being a Diva for me is a way of living, not an attitude. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin and loving yourself to respect yourself enough to have morals and yes to be “FLY”.
However being “FLY” is whatever you feel it is because it’s the way you view yourself that matters the most. Hey, maybe I can’t afford Prada but I can afford Marshalls Department Store. (FYI) Which by the way has some really quality clothes. If you have to have on the most expensive clothes just to be a Diva then you have already lost. In conclusion, from my 1st blog by “4everADiva” I would like to leave you with this idea “If you can’t be you then who are you being, it’s easier to just be the best you ever.
4everADiva Motto: Do it for yourself not for the crowd: Til next time stay FLY, FOCUSED and love YOU!

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